8 months pregnant and NOWWW he wants to be involved...?

it's great to hear that you're going through a happy and healthy pregnancy :) I totally agree with the part that you don't want to jump back into a relationship, he left so easily. Use the time that you are together, to talk about the baby. I know that he doesn't really show his emotions about the baby but I think that things will change once she is born. Make sure if you have a relationship with him again, that you build a trusting relationship. Let him know that what he did was childish. I think it's great that you are willing to have him be a part of the child's life, even when he acted very immature about the pregnancy. You're such a strong woman. Your daughter will appreciate both of her parents in her life. Take things slow and focus on yourself for now. You seem like a very smart woman and I know you have good judgement from what I've read. Congratulations on your baby. Best of luck :)